Conflict can define a relationship. Conflict is about
struggling for control to establish power and influence decision making. The
very nature of conflict gives rise to the potential endangerment of a
relationship’s safety and security. Regardless of how much individuals care for
one another, disagreements can evolve into separation and alienation.
A man with
custody of two young children married a woman who seemed to love and accept
them. Yet he refused to let his new wife have much of a role in taking care of
the children. The children, sensing their father’s protective role, refused to
respond to their stepmother’s guidance, leaving her frustrated and hurt.
A change
took place when the father became incapacitated, leaving the stepmother with
the responsibility for the children. The father finally realized she was
capable of loving and caring for his children. Trust and faith in her blossomed.
When we see how God provides for our needs, faith and trust in his love and
care become permanent.
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