What defines an apology and what purpose does it serve in relationships? Even without a definition, everyone knows what’s involved in apologizing. However, what you do and how you feel may be at odds with each other, as when a child is forced to apologize for unacceptable behavior and feels little regret or remorse.
A sincere apology should relieve the pain and suffering of the offended person so healing can begin. A second purpose for an apology is to restore fellowship and peace to a relationship that has been fractured. Reconciliation in most cases will not succeed without a sincere apology.
Another reason for apologizing is to experience forgiveness so guilt and shame can be cleansed from one’s conscience. Then it’s important to ask, “Will you forgive me?” This is basic to humbling yourself, for without humility you stand apart from the offended. God, Christ Jesus, and the Holy Spirit will help you do this.
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[Jesus said,] “Wear my yoke – for it fits perfectly –
and let me teach you; for I am gentle and humble, and you shall find rest for
your souls; for I give you only light burdens.”
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