A young woman told how her former boyfriend threatened to
harm her and himself if she did not comply with his wish to continue the
relationship. He felt out of control, disconnected and desperate. Unfortunately,
threatening behaviors build a bridge to dismantling trust, respect, and
confidence.
It’s important to accept that total control
over another person is impossible. Attempts to control others are built on a
foundation of fear and ultimately build a bridge to desperation. God did not
create robots to be ruled over by a dictator. He intended for self-control and
freedom to expand as maturity and good judgement evolve.
What’s
involved in letting go of unhealthy, unnecessary control? It requires trust and
confidence in others and the Lord Jesus Christ. Christ in you produces love,
joy, peace and self-control while reducing fear, anxiety and worry. These virtues
of the Holy Spirit build a bridge to security which diminishes the need for
unhealthy control.
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