Is it possible to be too nice by accepting other people’s negative attitudes and behaviors? Vicious circles begin by yielding to self-imposed needs to always be nice and accepting. Feelings of guilt and shame may follow when a person yields to being inappropriately nice.
Vicious circles can be problematic, not only for relationships but for a person’s integrity and self-esteem.
Those within a vicious circle may lose self-respect by refusing to share what they think and feel just to avoid having conflict and being rejected.
Can these patterns of behavior be changed? The answer is "Yes", but it may be difficult where conflict avoidance is part of the vicious circle. However, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Energy for change comes from believing God is a constant source of hope and power. Psalm 18 declares, “I love you, O Lord, my strength, my rock, my fortress, and my Savior.” Allow this to be your testimony and faith.
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Therefore, whenever we have the opportunity, we should do good to everyone.
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