Mankind is designed to demonstrate aggression toward others, and at times toward himself. One purpose of bonding and communicating is to reduce hostility within a relationship and within oneself. Where bonding is allowed to evolve and be nurtured, the potential for conflict is limited. Consequently, healthy bonding and communication establish peace and intimacy.
In normal relationships the strength of the physical and emotional bond tends to increase as knowledge and appreciation of each other continue to grow and blossom. Where there is freedom to mutually express ideas and beliefs, the ties that bind continue to be strengthened.
Specific communication that enhances love and affection not only stabilizes bonding but promotes security by abolishing aggression. Hosea 11:4 speaks of God's bond to us. "I led them with kindness, and love; I lifted the yoke from their neck." God nurtures his people because the bond that ties us to him never weakens.
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