The main task in life for most people is to get their needs met. Those needs usually include providing for the family and excelling in a profession. Of course there are other needs that are defined as priorities. Establishing priorities sets the standard for achievement and success. Priorities define purpose and hope for the future.
Most people’s priority is to please others if only to ensure peace and avoid conflict, which may inadvertently cause anguish and frustration. When pleasing others is healthy, it builds mutual respect because different opinions and perceptions are stimulating and enjoyable.
The Gospels indicate Jesus did not avoid conflict completely; neither did he instigate it unnecessarily. His intention was to please, and that was most of the time. Most everyone wants to please because to do so is rewarding. When we strive to please our heavenly Father, we experience joy. Proverbs 17:22 reminds us, “A joyful heart is good medicine.”
You can see that I am not trying to please you by sweet
talk and flattery; no, I am trying to please God. If I were still trying to please
men, I could not be Christ’s servant.
~Galatians 1:10 The Living Bible
When the way you live pleases the Lord, he makes even your
enemies be at peace with you.
~Proverbs 16:7 New International Reader’s Version
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