Can Anger Be Expressed Constructively by Blaming God?

Anger can be constructive when expressed with restraints that restrict revenge from taking control. Do you believe it’s possible to subdue an angry attitude? It’s important to understand that uncontrolled anger can ricochet with harsh consequences.

Anger expressed as hatred can be treacherous. When God asked Jonah if his anger was justified, he answered with an affirming, “Yes!” Can you constructively express anger when you believe God is the source of your trouble?

Anger internalized is extremely risky once it transforms into depression. God offered Jonah a way out of his intense anger and hatred by making sure he viewed the situation from God’s perspective. Anger will dissipate when there is a readiness to let it go, made possible by the transforming wisdom and power of God. 

Now is the time to make a fresh start, which you can do, with God’s help.                     

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But as for those who serve the Lord, he will redeem them; everyone who takes refuge in him will be freely pardoned. 

~Psalm 34:22 The Living Bible 

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Do You Need a Better Source for Managing Anger?

Have you ever been consumed with anger when you didn't get what you wanted? Jonah believed God failed him in two ways. First, God refused to destroy the people of Nineveh as Jonah had prophesied. 

Then as he sat sulking in the desert heat outside the city, the plant God provided for shade withered and died. That plant was a source of shade for Jonah, so when it died, he wanted to die. He believed God was causing him pain and suffering.

God asked Jonah, “Do you have a right to be angry?” A primary skill for managing anger is to ask, “Do I have the right to be angry, considering the circumstances? Is there a better way to manage this situation?” Think about the issue from God’s perspective. God’s word encourages you to let go of anger by earnestly asking, “Is my anger justified?” The Holy Spirit will free you from anger’s captivity.

      

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For he rescued us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son [Jesus], in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. 

~Colossians 1:13-14 New American Standard Bible 

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Is It Possible to View Any Situation from God's Perspective?

Have you experienced intense anger because you felt entitled to that anger? Jonah felt justified with his anger because God refused to destroy Nineveh for their evil ways. Instead, God demonstrated mercy and forgiveness when the people repented.

Jonah felt embarrassed and betrayed because God spared Nineveh, so picture Jonah sitting in the desert’s hot, blistering sun, pouting and feeling diminished in credibility. God then caused a huge plant to spring up to provide shade for him.

His enjoyment was short lived when a worm destroyed the plant, causing Jonah to feel like dying. Had Jonah been able to pacify his anger by viewing the situation from God’s perspective, he could have celebrated with the people of Nineveh. Is anger blocking you from sensing God’s presence?

Ask God for spiritual clarity and guidance so you can live in peace with yourself and others.  Do it now.             

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Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 

~2 Corinthians 4:16-18 New International Version 

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Where Does Your Vulnerability Reside?

God gave us the biblical account of Jonah because we tend to model his attitudes and behaviors. We will never be swallowed by a large fish or be called by God to prophesy the doom a great city. We are prone to becoming angry and resentful as we encounter disappointments.

Embarrassment, followed by anger, surfaces with a loss of personal credibility. This happened to Jonah at Nineveh, so he withdrew to pout and sulk. He was obsessed with God’s being judgmental and punishing, and when God failed to meet his expectations, he was consumed with anger.

Jonah learned an important lesson at Nineveh. God is forgiving and merciful and changes his mind when people’s attitudes and behaviors turn to righteousness by discarding evil. 

The people of Nineveh turned from evil that was leading to destruction and turned to God with confession and repentance. You can follow their lead. 

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So be truly glad! There is wonderful joy ahead, even though the going is rough for a while down here. These trials are only to test your faith, to see whether or not it is strong and pure. It is being tested as fire tests gold and purifies it – your faith is more precious to God than mere gold… 

~1 Peter 1:6-7 The Living Bible 

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What Obstructs Being Able to Recognize God's Purpose?

Jonah’s feelings about Nineveh being totally destroyed, including each person, all livestock, and every building, were clear. Listen to his message to the city: “Forty days and Nineveh will be destroyed!” That’s a three-second, eight-word message, but it was powerful and effective.

Jonah constructed a shelter on the perimeter of the city to witness Nineveh’s destruction. However the people turned from their evil ways and repented, prompting God to give them absolution which caused Jonah to become infuriated with God.

Becoming fixated in anger insured Jonah’s misunderstanding of God’s love and forgiveness. However you can rise above resentment, disappointment, and anger by being accountable to God for the good things the future holds as you respond to God’s forgiveness, love, and mercy. He invites you to make a new beginning today regardless of your past. 

Will you receive it? God is waiting.              

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For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. He holds success in store for the upright, he is a shield for those whose walk is blameless, for he guards the course of the just and protects the way of the faithful ones. 

~Proverbs 2:6-8 New International Version 

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Does God Always Do What Is Best for Everyone?

To say that Jonah was a complex person is to understate the mixture of responses he demonstrated in being selected to take God’s message to the evil city of Nineveh. He failed to show compassion when the people repented and God graciously forgave them.

Imagine Jonah in a state of rage yelling at God for saving Nineveh. Listen to his tirade: “I knew you were a loving and merciful God, always patient, always kind and always ready to change your mind and not punish.” His rage soon turned to depression, followed by a wish to die.

An important lesson for us to learn is, God does not act according to our assessment of a situation, but does what is best for everyone. You, like Jonah, may disagree. 

As you face an uncertain time, God will give you clarity on how to manage your situation as you cooperate with him to bring about his perfect will.                      

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The Lord says: “My thoughts and my ways are not like yours. Just as the heavens are higher than the earth, my thoughts and my ways are higher than yours.” 

~Isaiah 55:8-9 Contemporary English Version 

Great is the Lord and most worthy of praise; his greatness no one can fathom. 

~Psalm 145:3 New International Version 

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Are You Facing a Defining Moment in Your Life?

A personal defining moment may occur when your attitudes and beliefs are challenged regarding what it means to be anchored in God’s family. When Jonah accepted God’s call to preach to the city of Nineveh, he faced a personal crisis concerning who should be loved by God.

After the people of Nineveh repented of their wickedness and gave their hearts to God, Jonah’s heart was filled with anger. What gave this emotion so much force in Jonah’s life? In this defining moment Jonah was possessed by a faulty perception of God’s love and mercy.

Jonah was angry because God did not destroy Nineveh. He was given an opportunity to live above prejudice and faulty religious beliefs but failed to do so. Facing a defining moment could occur as you face being available for all God has prepared for you to do and become. 

How will you decide? May God bless and guide your decision.

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Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. ~Matthew 11:28-30 New International Version 

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