How Well Are You Managing the Life God Has Given You?

While we may not be directly responsible for creating a crisis, we are accountable for how we conduct ourselves. Self-management depends on learning important skills like clarity of thoughts and feelings for navigating the troubled waters of life.

Everyone knows what it’s like to experience the absence of self-control. Thinking and speaking with clarity derives from an uncluttered mind, which is possible even when uncertainty abounds. Accountability depends on clarity of thoughts and feelings.

How well you manage varies with how comfortable you are with your surroundings. On several occasions when a situation became tense, Jesus would slip away to a quiet place to avoid those who were incompatible with his purpose.

Moments of quietness to regain clarity in thinking and feelings and to regulate your tone of voice help others see that you represent Christ in your actions and usage of language. May God bless and help you do this.                

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I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you. 

~Psalm 32:8 New International Version 

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How Well Are You Adjusting to What Life Demands?

What is the most difficult situation you’ve had to adjust to recently? While waiting for the elevator, a young man caught my attention. A prosthesis was attached to the upper portion of his leg and he used a cane for balance. I couldn’t help wondering if he was a veteran.

He was outgoing and seemed unashamed that his body and life had been dramatically altered. Adaptability is the key to making the most of a severely altered life. Adjusting to a new reality may mean rediscovering a new meaning and purpose for living.

God gives us the ability to adapt to what seems impossible. When we ask God for help with a positive attitude, he gives us an unflinching commitment to face the future with whatever he provides.

“The eye has not seen nor the ear heard what good things God has in store for those who love him.” Have you asked God to help you love him with all your heart, soul, and strength? Why not do so now?   

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…I have learned how to [live] happily whether I have much or little. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of contentment in every situation…for I can do everything God asks me to with the help of Christ Jesus who gives me strength and power. 

~Philippians 4:11-13 The Living Bible 

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Are You Adapting to What's Beyond Your Control?

We have two basic responses to life’s uncertainties. One is feeling secure in what we know to be true and the other is adapting to the fact that life can be unpredictable. God did not intend for us to languish in doubt, but to trust in His power, protection, and provision.

Feelings of uncertainty test our capability to adjust to what cannot be controlled. Parents soon learn they cannot control every aspect of their child’s development especially during adolescence. How faithful a child remains to family values is unpredictable.

God conferred upon us the power to adjust as the family faces trouble. God made this possible by implanting in us an attitude of trust that He controls what we cannot control.

When we ask God for guidance, faith, and help, and then we resolve to be determined to receive what he provides, our trust and love for God grow stronger. God is love.

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At the time, discipline isn’t much fun. It always feels like it’s going against the grain. Later, of course, it pays off handsomely, for it is the well-trained who find themselves mature in their relationship with God. 

~Hebrews 12:11 The Message 

For the Spirit that God has given us does not make us timid; instead, his Spirit fills us with power, love, and self-control. 

~2 Timothy1:7 Good News Bible 

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Is It Possible to Accept What Is Unpredictable?

It is difficult to acknowledge the importance of adaptability when uncertainty has to be faced. Adaptability conveys the idea of adjusting to changes at present and in the future. Adaptability is motivated by faith and trust.

Consider the new-born baby. This wonderful event changes the identity of the family. Sleep patterns are disrupted and attention must be given constantly to the infant. Parents are designed to delight in being co-creators of a new life.

Have you considered that God intended for your life to be unpredictable with changeable goals? We cannot know what tomorrow holds or how to always be prepared for what we do know. 

The apostle Paul gives these words of assurance to Timothy: “I know whom I have believed and am convinced that he [Jesus] is able to guard what I have entrusted to him.” In a world of uncertainty there is security in Jesus Christ.

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Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he [God] who promised is faithful. 

~Hebrews 10:23 New International Version  

The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. 

~2 Peter 3:9 New International Version  

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What Belief System Is Required When Facing Uncertainty?

There are two possible responses to the uncertainties that life will predictably consign to each person. These responses are either positive or negative, contingent on how adaptable a person is when an uncertain future is confronted.

When my mother became unable to live alone, she resisted moving to an assisted living facility. She could not imagine adapting to changes this transition required. What surprised her family was how quickly she actually made friends of other patients and the staff.

Successfully coping with uncertainties requires a transition in a person’s thinking, feelings and behavior. Adaptability most often determines the success or failure of any transition. Believing God is present to help and guide reduces the risk of transitions becoming a failure.

While failure is possible, thank God for second chances and time to grow and mature in faith and trust.

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God’s blessings are given to us by faith as a free gift; we are certain to get them … if we have faith … to trust in God [to keep his promises]. 

~Romans 4:16-17 The Living Bible 

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How Adaptable Are You to Unavoidable Changes?

Adjusting to life’s ups and downs is an ongoing necessity. It is not a question of whether uncertainties will have to be faced but how to respond. It is possible to confront uncertainty with confidence, for God will teach you how to face the future.

When the future appears questionable, adaptability is the key to successfully managing the unexpected. Adaptability depends on whether a positive or negative emotional state of mind accompanies what appears uncertain and challenging.

Human beings and the majority of God’s creation are designed to be adaptable to changes in life, whether temporary or permanent.

Imagine the twelve disciples and their families adapting to a life of uncertainty and of challenging work. Instead of fishing for a living or collecting taxes, they had to become fishers of men – evangelists who preached the Gospel. Being adaptable opens the door for God to change your life. Are you ready?                

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The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all. 

~Psalm 34:19 New International Version 

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. 

~Isaiah 41:10 New International Version 

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Is It Possible to Remain Faithful to Jesus?

The majority of people are capable of managing variations in their daily routines. However, variations can be challenging if too complicated and beyond what is known and acceptable. Variations are usually temporary, while transitions tend to be permanent.

Transitions are a fact of life and require adaptability. Have you noticed how getting older often diminishes your energy and strength? Fortunately, God provided us with adaptability so we could accommodate needed change.

The apostle Peter believed he could never be dissuaded from being faithful to Jesus, but when faced with a life-threatening situation, he caved to fear and denied even knowing Jesus. Peter later proved he could adapt to failure by putting it behind him. He accepted the challenge Jesus gave him to be a true disciple. Peter then remained faithful to Jesus until his death. 

Forgiveness is available to whomever will seek it.      

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Take care to remain in me, and let me live in you. For a branch cannot produce fruit when severed from the vine. Nor can you be fruitful apart from me.  

~John 15:4 The Living Bible 

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