Conflict is present in most relationships because change
needs to take place. Conflict evolves as personal feelings and thoughts
collide. A young adult described several conflicts he was trying to sort out. His
purpose was to avoid conflict, but failure abounded. Internal strife occurs when
values are ignored, which then produces guilt and shame.
The young
man’s inner conflict had to do with underachieving, failing to live up to his
natural abilities and talents. It’s comparable to getting by with minimum
effort rather than to achieving at one’s natural level, which sometimes is known
as laziness. Most underachievers have problems trusting their own ability to be
successful so they hide their talent.
While the issue of internal conflict is not easily
resolved, committing and entrusting oneself to God’s care and love is a
valuable first step. Even though it is difficult to do, it’s important to
remember that God’s peace will keep your thoughts and heart quiet as you trust
in the encouragement of Christ Jesus.
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