What Gives Hope for Future Happiness?

Happiness associated with a family gathering is dependent on many diverse factors, simply because of the expectations and demands of a celebration. Somewhere in the mix of the activities should be a reminder that the presence of Christ Jesus is there to bless the day’s events.

Holiday happiness can be relatively assured when there is an enduring compatibility between those who celebrate and God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Personal satisfaction is then linked to a loving family gathering, combined with the reality of deep abiding attachments. 

What ensures happiness for a family gathering is the mutual family compatibility that is enhanced by the peace of God. 

Compatibility defines a thriving connectedness with God and other people. You are enriched by the presence of Christ Jesus, who chooses to reveal himself to you as you choose to seek and love him.                      

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Turn away from evil and do [what is right and] good. Try to live in peace [with one another] even if you must run after it to catch and hold it!

~1 Peter 3:11 The Living Bible

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What Draws Families Closer to Each Other?

Compatibility within a family would seem to be a given because of genetics and shared experiences while growing up with each other. Kinship does make a difference but doesn’t guarantee compatibility or friendship. A mother and daughter or a father and son may not be of the same temperament or personality.

Compatibility may be difficult especially during childhood and adolescence yet may become easier as each person matures. For some families, compatibility is difficult because of diversity in ideas and personal objectives.

Family gatherings can be a time of exploring possibilities of long-range goals for family members. 

Agree to put aside differences that cause hurt feelings and conflict. Let Psalm 25:4 guide you. “Teach me your ways O Lord; make them known to me. Teach me to live according to your truth for you are my God who saves me.” Why not be open to that possibility?          

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Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way … Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 

~1 Corinthians 13:4-5,7 Revised Standard Version

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