There’s a difference
between short-term hate and hatred that has festered for years. Temporary hate
often dissipates with situational change. We're aware of a child or adolescent
expressing hatred of a friend or parent, then abruptly letting it go. Anyone is
subject to hatred when situations are difficult.
Hate
of in-laws or other relatives may develop into mutual hatred resulting in strife
that’s perpetuated for years. A woman believed her in-laws could care less if
she lived or died and consequently separated herself and her children from them
for years. It’s apparent that hatred internalized has power to disrupt
fellowship with others and the Lord God.
While hatred
may not negate your salvation, it can ruin the joy of your fellowship with God, for hatred cannot coexist with joy and peace. They’re incompatible. A house divided against
itself cannot remain healthy. Yet God stands ready to melt hearts of stone
created by hatred. You can submit your heart to him at this moment.
