Break Free from Shame

Taking ownership means claiming possession, like after you purchase a home. This is comparable to taking responsibility for making amends to those who have been hurt by our conduct. Taking ownership implies that no one else is to blame for my behavior except myself. Therefore, I will make things right by taking responsibility to change my hurtful behavior.

Making amends parallels repenting for sins committed against God and others. Repentance implies turning away from sin and moving toward righteousness and wholeness. It signifies a willingness to be transformed into the person God intended for us to become.

If you’re willing to make amends, then shame and embarrassment that would keep you in bondage can be overcome and broken. Coming to Christ in true repentance gives you courage to seek forgiveness from God and from others who were hurt and offended by your deliberate actions and attitudes. You are then empowered by a clear conscience to embrace the life God has intended for you to live. 

Override Your Embarrassment - Just Do It!

Making amends for irresponsible behavior is not easy. Taking ownership of careless and deliberate actions that have caused pain and suffering to others is a first step toward making amends. Shame is an appropriate feeling when suffering has been inflicted on others by being unfaithful, dishonest, deceitful, or by misrepresenting oneself.

St. Paul describes our old, nonredeemable self as being responsible for damaging another person’s character or self-esteem. The absence of shame in these situations would be abnormal and out of character for believers in Christ Jesus. The Holy Spirit creates shame and guilt when such sin has been committed. 

          However, the inner voice of embarrassment cries out to override efforts to make things right with those whom we've offended. Yet it’s imperative to listen to the inner voice of Christ Jesus urging you to press onward to make amends for wrongs you've committed. Christ Jesus is your defense and strong fortress against any evil you will encounter.