Search for Solutions – Don't Complain and Blame

Every new beginning has within it the potential for fulfilling a dream that provides energy to launch out as the first stage. This initial phase of a process is not unlike what is experienced by couples who have funds to build their dream home. Predictably, problems will surface that have to be solved at several stages along the way.

Getting back on track after confronting major problems takes effort and determination. Problem solving involves rearranging priorities. It's not surprising that newly-weds underestimate the adjustments that must be made to live together peacefully. The good news is, most couples make the transition.

The Israelites followed a pattern of complaining and blaming Moses for their problems. They refused to look within themselves for solutions. Complaining and blaming seldom lead to insight and solutions. Seek wisdom and help from trusted friends or a professional. Finally, believe God knows what you’re facing and go to him in prayer, asking for help and guidance. He will send help.

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Be one in thought and in love, live in harmony, keep one purpose in mind. Don’t be selfish or proud, but humbly treat others as better than yourselves. Each of you, be interested not only in your own things but also in those of others.

~Philippians 2:2-4 Beck – New Testament in the Language of Today  

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Problems to Solve, Questions to Ponder - Part 1

Life has a way of creating problems, so problem solving becomes a necessity. Someone said, “I’ll take the problems rather than the alternative, for if I’m alive, solutions and changes are possible.” Problems do challenge our creativity, but if they’re ignored, the resulting conflicts may appear overwhelming and make change seem impossible.

A critical step in problem solving is to clearly define the specific change that needs attention. When God sent Jesus to be the Messiah, his mission was clearly defined. Through faith in Jesus, believers achieve peace with God by being saved from sin and death. They no longer face the consequence of eternal separation from God.

Becoming a believer is not an escape from life’s complications. It does mean there is help for facing today’s challenges. God provides guidance needed for managing difficult situations, so ask the Holy Spirit to provide the specific insight and help you need to resolve the issues you face. It will surprise you what God will do.