Identifying problems that need change is relatively
easy, but developing a strategy for change can be difficult, if not
overwhelming. A well informed twenty-year-old confided, “I know change is
needed, but making it happen escapes me.” A basic first step is clearly
defining the problem in practical, concrete terms.
Clearly identifying solutions involves clearing away our
first thoughts and impressions. Blaming others for hurt, pain and failure
block our ability to see how issues are perpetuated by our mindset and behaviors.
Blaming others for problems we face is normal, but healing only occurs as we acknowledge
our complicity in the problems.
Developing patience for change occurs as God extends to
you his tolerance and wisdom. You must commit to using what he gives in ways
that comply with his plan and purpose. Proverbs 19:2 offers this advice: “Enthusiasm
without knowledge is not helpful,” so wait and listen to what God puts in your
heart and mind.
No comments:
Post a Comment