So often in counseling, a person leaves a session with
enthusiasm because hope has been renewed, even with the realization that lasting
change doesn’t come without struggle. Yet what we imagine can be either a powerful
inspiration or a deterrent to progress. One man described it as a shadow that created
fear of being honest.
His daughter
confessed to struggling with an internal conflict she had failed to resolve. The
advice he gave her was like a mirror reflecting his own face concerning what he
was unable to work out with her mother, his wife. That shadow he identified was
fear of being powerless, weak and inferior in the face of truth and honesty.
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