Relationships 101: Keep on Understanding and Accepting

What soothes a distressed heart and mind are calm, understanding words that communicate acceptance. Understanding and acceptance dismantle emotional distance generated by conflict. By understanding another person's behavior, it is possible to choose a better way of responding rather than to construct an emotional barrier to communications.  

Relationships tend to follow specific stages. The first is the honeymoon phase. Feelings of acceptance, love and closeness produce an atmosphere conducive for commitment that promises to last forever. The next phase defines periods of disappointment and struggle where a true picture emerges of relationship compatibility.

If there are understanding and acceptance of imperfections, then the third phase of accommodation takes place. The realization that imperfections exist but can be tolerated defines accommodation. Understanding is the key to conflict resolution, and it takes place in this phase. “Although it costs all you have, get understanding,” advises Proverbs 4:7. 

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Understanding your word brings light to the minds of ordinary people.

~Psalm 119:130 Contemporary English Version

Listen to what is wise and try to understand it. Yes, beg for knowledge, plead for insight. Look for it as hard as you would for silver or some hidden treasure.

~Proverbs 2:2-4 Good News Bible