Impatience and Impulsivity – Unfortunate Companions

Apparently, Samson was an only child and may have been born when his parents were older. This may explain why his parents catered to his demands to marry outside his faith. They had the right to refuse his demands, but they gave in, knowing it was wrong to do so. 

Impatience is often a companion of impulsive people. Abraham and Sarah are examples. They refused to accept God’s timing for the son he had promised would be born to them. Instead of waiting for God, Sarah gave her maidservant to Abraham so she could give birth to a son whom Sarah then would claim as her own.

Decisions made with little thought of long-range consequences often are regretted because of the consequent pain and sorrow that follow. Samson did not want God’s approval to marry the Philistine woman, just as Abraham and Sarah never actually wanted God’s approval to use their Egyptian servant as a surrogate mother. Waiting for God’s approval and timing is essential for peace of mind and long-range happiness.  

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We wait in hope for the Lord; he is our hope and our shield.

In him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in his holy name.

May your unfailing love be with us, Lord, even as we put our hope in you.

~Psalm 33:20-22 New International Version