A transgression occurs when a code of conduct has been violated or dishonored. A typical response is disbelief, especially in a close, trusting relationship such as a marriage or friendship. Anger in most instances follows disbelief when a transgression is intended to hurt and do damage.
Middle schoolers are notorious for instantly changing friendships and portraying a previous friend in the worst way. An offense that activates revenge doesn’t always include physical violence but can include words loaded with pain that can endure for a lifetime.
Vengeful behavior is common in divorce proceedings or in situations where betrayal made divorce imminent. The most difficult response to follow is Proverbs 19:11: “A wise person refrains from anger and overlooks insults.” If you’re guilty of betrayal, do what is right and thoroughly confess, which demonstrates humility. Then sincerely apologize.
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Oh, come back to God. Live by the principles of love and
justice, and always be expecting much from him, your God.
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