Pathway to Patience

God's word describes patience as a fruit of the Holy Spirit. A Fruit of the Spirit is a character trait or a virtue at work in us to produce good works. When we determine to walk with God, to know and love him, then the Holy Spirit produces in us patience as well as other godly virtues.

It appears that Samson lacked the virtue of patience, so changing his response to problems created by his passions and pride seemed unlikely. Patience builds up character and stifles anger, while subduing pride. Samson did not desire to wait on the Lord for guidance and direction but acted impulsively, plunging headlong into behaviors prompted by his passions.

Passion and pride have little tolerance for patience, which is indicative of a reluctance to permit the Holy Spirit to change us. Wisdom is required for insight, and God is willing give us wisdom when we sincerely seek it. Wisdom is the pathway to patience, so ask God to give you wisdom which provides tolerance for controlling impulsivity.  

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We ask God to give you complete knowledge of his will and to give you spiritual wisdom and understanding…We also pray that you will be strengthened with all his glorious power so you will have all the endurance and patience you need. May you be filled with joy.

~Colossians 1:9,11 New Living Translation

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Relationships: Build Them Up or Tear Them Down

A marriage relationship is one of God's most precious gifts designed to provide love and affection, sexual fulfillment, a sense of commitment and belonging as well as an opportunity to explore the deeper complexities of our humanity. Our passions play an interesting role in either establishing and maintaining a relationship or causing the disintegration and unraveling of the very fiber that holds it together.

We observe this pattern in Samson’s life when he found a young woman to marry. His parents arranged their marriage, but his impulsivity and bent for mischievousness created a fiasco that doomed the marriage before it began.

Samson's personality lent itself to blaming others for his failures. He justified his enraged behavior by believing others were responsible for his pain and suffering. Sampson's passion prevented him from seeking the Lord God for wisdom and guidance. No matter how desperate your situation appears, nothing is impossible for God Almighty nor beyond his willingness to help.  

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The Lord hates people who do evil, but he takes righteous people into his confidence.

The Lord puts a curse on the homes of the wicked, but he blesses the homes of the righteous.

~Proverbs 3:32-33 Good News Bible