How Does Unexpected Change Affect Self-esteem?

An unexpected change can be disconcerting when what it demands appears incomprehensible. A young man became unemployed due to company cutbacks. Unable to find suitable employment, he moved in with his parents. In our society these circumstances are not unusual.

This temporary move back home was feared to be permanent by his parents, who initially questioned and discounted the sincerity of his efforts to find a new job. Losing employment and returning home proved to be a pivotal event for him and his parents.

However, pivotal events can boost self-esteem and self-worth by pushing individuals toward stability and independence, even when it means working outside of your career choice. God’s long-range purpose may hinge on your separating from old dependencies that appear comfortable but can be a barrier to becoming the person God intended. 

So why not commit your life completely to discovering God’s purpose for you now?  

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Young people can live a clean life by obeying your word…Don’t let me walk away from your commands. I treasure your word above all else; it keeps me from sinning against you. I praise you, Lord!

~Psalm 119: 9-12 Contemporary English Version

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How Do Relationships Test Your Character Strengths?

Pivotal events are not reserved for just an unexpected moment. Certainly Jesus would be a pivotal event for Mary and Joseph. When Joseph learned Mary was pregnant, he was ready to walk away, but an angel assured him Jesus would be a pivotal event for the entire world.

Pivotal events may appear overwhelming. Initially, Joseph expected to be married, have children and lead a normal life, but then his dreams appeared to be in jeopardy because what he faced could not be denied. Joseph was presented with a choice that would test his strength of character and his faith in God. 

Joseph’s dream presented a pivotal turning point because he realized God would use him in a way that could never be surpassed. Reassurance from God at a pivotal moment is available to those who seek it with humility and thanksgiving. So praise God and thank him for his provisions of faith and trust to see you through what seems impossible. 

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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude,; it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  

~1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 New International Version

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What May Be the Most Difficult Adjustment for Marriage?

A pivotal event may occur unexpectedly, such as meeting a person whose influence will extend forever into the future. However, being blessed with a marriage soulmate may test each person’s resilience and endurance.

The majority of young men and women want to be married in hopes of their dreams coming true. What aren’t anticipated are the adjustments that have to be made, like modifying or abandoning personal habits to clear the way for living peacefully with the new soulmate.

God’s word commands men and women to leave their parents and cleave to each other, which most couples intend to do. However, leaving and cleaving may have to be done in stages rather than instantaneously. A pivotal moment for a marriage may occur after a couple has experienced several conflicts that resulted in a commitment being made to stay together because the couple realized God intended for their marriage to survive and endure. 

Praise God!                             

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Be gentle and ready to forgive; never hold grudges. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Most of all, let love guide your life…

~Colossians 3:13-14 The Living Bible

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What Makes Humility Sincere and Honest?

Significant events in life can be pivotal in determining what later happens to a person. Audie Murphy experienced a pivotal moment when he stopped a German army force that would have been disastrous for his fellow soldiers and friends. 

Audie Murphy was an adolescent during all the war years he served but nevertheless became the most decorated soldier of World War II. The movie To Hell and Back portrayed Audie Murphy’s courage and humility that locked him into the hearts of those who admired him as a hero.

A pivotal event can be an illness such as the one Hezekiah the King of Judah experienced. The prophet Isaiah told him to put his house in order, for his illness was terminal. Upon hearing those words, Hezekiah turned his head to the wall and in faith prayed to God for help. God responded by giving him fifteen more years to live.

God’s grace is always adequate, regardless of challenges, when we reach out to him in faith and humility.                

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I look up to the mountains; does my strength come from mountains? No, my strength comes from God, who made heaven, and earth, and mountains.

~Psalm 121:1-2 The Message

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How Is God's Plan Linked to Pivotal Events?

A pivotal moment can occur when your purpose in life is redefined. When my father was in his forties, he was offered a job as a craftsman at an aircraft factory. This opportunity was a stretch for him, but he realized it was a pivotal moment he couldn’t let slip away.

This new job gave him confidence that life could be better and enabled him to later buy a farm and build a new house where he and my mother could retire. Pivotal events occur infrequently during a lifetime but are closely coupled to God’s purpose for each individual’s life.

If you are experiencing a pivotal moment in your life, perhaps God is preparing you for a significant place in his plan for you. While anxiety may be present, expect strong assurance from God that he is leading you. His word promises that the good work he began in you to secure his plan for you, he will finish. 

So give thanks and praise to God!  

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Don’t be impatient. Wait for the Lord, and he will come and save you! Be brave, stouthearted and courageous. Yes, wait and he will help you.

~Psalm 27:14 The Living Bible
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When Do Your Plans Collide with God's Purpose?

A pivotal event often corresponds to a particular moment when a new direction in life is undertaken. Hannah was unable to conceive and give birth to a child. In desperation she promised God if he would permit her to give birth to a son, she would dedicate him to God for his entire life.

When a son was born, she named him Samuel, which meant “heard from God.” When Samuel was three, Hannah and her husband took him to Eli the priest to be dedicated and trained as a servant of God. Hannah did not forget Samuel. Once a year she visited him and brought him a special gift.

Giving birth to Samuel and dedicating him to God were pivotal moments for Hannah. These changed her identity and self-esteem. She believed God had heard her prayers, and this made him completely trustworthy. 

A pivotal moment in your life will occur when by faith you acknowledge all things are possible with God, who loves you.                 

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You may make your plans, but God directs your actions. 

~Proverbs 16:9 Good News Bible

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How Would You Define a Pivotal Event?

A pivotal event is defined as a moment in time when two or more factors come together in a person’s life to determine a directional change to follow indefinitely. A person’s life is often measured by the response given to a significant pivotal moment. Ernest Hemingway experienced a pivotal moment as a young man during the first World War when he was severely wounded.

Ernest Hemingway’s personal life did not reflect the presence of Christ Jesus in his life. Consequently, his near-death experience may have contributed to severe depression and his eventual suicide later in life.

A pivotal event can be perceived as either positive or negative. The measure of a person can be determined by how appreciative that person is for each day granted to him or her to do good works. 

Taking advantage of every opportunity to live for Christ and promote the Kingdom of God is definitely a worthwhile objective that will secure peace with God.        

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Be humble in the presence of God’s mighty power, and he will honor you when the time comes.

~1 Peter 5:6 Contemporary English Version

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