To
believe all anger is wrong creates perpetual guilt. While anger may be
frustrating, even destructive, normal anger can be healthy and helpful if
properly channeled. Healthy expressions of anger take the initiative to correct
what is wrong or unfair. Other healthy expressions of anger lead to the pursuit
of knowledge and improved communications to clarify misunderstandings.
Our integrity is strengthened when
anger is expressed in a non-accusatory way rather than as a means for harming and
controlling others. Guilt is accrued when anger is used as a weapon against
another person. Guilt will overshadow healthy integrity and eventually lead to
despair.
Pursuing
resolutions for anger enhances integrity. God calls us to follow his initiative
in managing anger. Listen to Exodus 34:12: "The Lord is gracious and compassionate,
slow to anger, abounding in faithfulness and love." Choose to shield your integrity
with these attributes, for they will prevent guilt from getting a foothold and
dominating your life.
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