Competition
exists in most loving relationships. Sibling rivalry is commonplace even though
it fosters conflict. Marriage partners may compete for recognition, which can create
discord within the marriage. Eddie and Joanne are high-achieving professionals
driven to be successful. When they arrive home each evening, they continue
working on projects, giving minimal time to their young daughters and each
other.
Behavioral
problems and dismal academic grades have forced Joanne and Eddie to seek
counseling for their daughters. The two girls compete with each other for negative
attention, which they consider better than being totally ignored and neglected.
These sisters have everything materially. What is non-existent in their lives
are expressions of love and affection and special time spent with their parents.
Remember,
a husband or wife as well as children are special gifts from God to be
cherished and loved rather than neglected. Realigning priorities is not only a possibility but a necessity, especially in a rushed and conflicted world. Ask God to
help you be committed to this task.
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Don’t you see that children are God’s best gift?
~Psalm 127:3 The Message
And now a word to you parents: Don’t keep on scolding
and nagging your children, making them angry and resentful. Rather bring them
up with the loving discipline the Lord himself approves.
~Ephesians 6:4 The Living Bible
You must be very careful not to forget the things you
have seen God do for you. Keep reminding yourselves and tell your children and
grandchildren as well.
~Deuteronomy 4:9 Contemporary English Version
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