The language we use builds a bridge either to understanding and acceptance or to confusion and disharmony. Language, no matter how unrefined, is basic for creating and sustaining loving relationships. When language escalates into hostile accusations, damage to the self-image and character of each person is unavoidable.
Provocative language used to control a situation or attack another person is usually met with equally defensive language designed to protect one’s self-image. Provocative language complicates the prospects for solving problems because the willingness to consider another's feelings, ideas and needs fades away.
Most problems can be negotiated where respect is extended to each other's feelings and ideas. Giving others an opportunity to express their ideas demonstrates trust and respect. Jesus' command was that we love one another, for doing so opens the door to trust and faith for building security into relationships.
Stop lying to each other. Quit being angry, hateful, and
evil. No longer say insulting or cruel things about each other. You have given up your old way of life with
its habits.
~Colossians 3:8-9 Contemporary English Version
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