Discord eventually makes its presence known in every relationship. Differences in personalities create dissension, which interferes with effective communication that’s essential for addressing difficult issues. Personality differences in thinking patterns and feelings emphasize how easily conflict can be triggered.
The first principle of effective communication is self-monitoring. Being able to effectively communicate reduces tension and stress, especially when each person’s viewpoint is respected. This can be done by monitoring your thoughts and feelings so what is verbalized doesn’t evolve into conflict. Verbal and nonverbal feedback influence how problem-solving is managed.
Self-monitoring helps filter what to verbalize and when to remain silent. God's word discourages conflicts and chaos, but it confers blessings to those who make unity and harmony their primary objective. “Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called children of God.” These are words of encouragement from Jesus and are worthy of following.
You will say the wrong thing if you talk too much – so be
sensible and watch what you say.
~Proverbs 10:19 Contemporary English Version
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