Abusive criticism, defined as domestic violence, rarely fronts headline news because of the way family abuse is perceived. However, criticism rarely if ever has a positive intent except for the one finding fault and relaying its negative message.
An alternative to criticism is correction conveyed with positive regard for the one to whom it is directed.
Criticism projects hostility while correction suggests a “non-attack” attitude. Correction’s objective is to convey understanding and knowledge, along with wisdom.
If you’re the criticizer, ask yourself, “What is there within me that produces this need to criticize the one I am supposed to love and cherish? Does God approve of the way I manage fear, anger, and hurt feelings?” Godly wisdom conveyed by the Holy Spirit makes corrections to your thoughts and feelings so encouragement and compassion can be expressed.
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See to it that no one
fails to obtain the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springs up and
causes trouble, and through it many become defiled.
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