Developing a Positive Identity - Part 3

One of my high school teachers was fond of reminding us of a truth  from English literature which designates a person's identity. Here it is: "What you are speaks so loudly I can't hear a word you say." Your identity includes so much more than words you speak. Choices that reflect your attitudes and the way you behave paint a clear picture of your character.

Jesus' parable of the prodigal son demonstrates how identity confusion leads to bad choices and ultimate despair. Out of despair the young man was able to see himself clearly and imagine what could be different. That's when he chose to change his life. So much time, energy, and resources were lost thinking he was something he was not. That's identity confusion.

Constructive change is possible by realizing the Lord Jesus can transform your circumstances, your inner self, and personal identity. God's desire is for you to reflect his character in the life you choose to live. This can be the distinguishing feature which clearly reflects your identity and what others see in you.  

Developing a Positive Identity - Part 2

Adolescence is often a blend of self-certainty and troubling confusion. Most children yearn to grow up and have more freedom, but freedom demands responsibility. For that reason it's not uncommon for teenagers to secretly yearn to return to just being a kid, where there wasn't so much responsibility and where the world seemed a safer place.

Most young people eventually get a grip on life that enables them to go forward and find where they belong. Fledgling self-certainty can be  strengthened by hope for the future and parents who encourage. A positive identity helps the adolescent separate and establish independence. Failure to do so indicates identity confusion and self-doubt.

If this is an issue, realize the Lord God is not the author of confusion. As you mature and become capable of managing what God delegates to your care, he provides clarity that conquers confusion. "Greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world." Choosing Christ Jesus gives assurance for a bright future that will be meaningful.