Conflicts
exist because of differences in values between individuals. Conflict occurs within
a person when a clash of values exists and the choices present a win-lose
situation regardless of what is chosen. An important objective of parenting is
to teach children values that clearly demonstrate what is right and what is
wrong.
God instructs parents in
Exodus 19 to "fix the ten commandments in their hearts and minds so they can
talk to their children about what God expects. Teach them God’s way to live so their
days may be long upon the earth." These verses emphasize giving children God’s
frame of reference for facing temptation and the trials of life.
Internal conflict can be managed
successfully where there's a foundation built on God's word. Talk to your
children about God's commandments as you drive them to activities, while eating
your meals and when you tuck them into bed. Read God’s word aloud to build
character that lasts a lifetime.
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He planted a witness in Jacob, set his Word firmly in
Israel,
Then commanded our parents to teach it to their children
So the next generation would know, and all the
generations to come –
Know the truth and tell the stories so their children
can trust in God,
Never forget the works of God but keep his commands to
the letter.
~Psalm 78:5-7 The Message
But Jesus said, “Let the children come to me, and don’t
try to stop them! People who are like these children belong in God’s kingdom.”
~Matthew 19:14 Contemporary English Version
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