Many books have been
written on the topic of midlife crisis, which both men and women may potentially
experience. Midlife is referred to as the years between thirty-five and
fifty-five. At this point in adult development, one’s identity may seem to lose
its cohesion and result in the loss of satisfaction with earlier important choices.
The
cause for this unrest is often identified as unresolved, internal conflicts
that have accumulated. Resolving internal conflict necessitates deciding between
one’s previous and present life choices or a skewed perception of what the future
holds. The consequence for not choosing well could be extended periods of regret
and unhappiness.
A midlife crisis may lead
to searching for what promises to alleviate the distress of one’s existence. This
is a good place to be, for now constructive choices for healthy change can take
place. The impact of previous choices cannot be avoided, but pressing onward to
rebuild one's life is possible. Call on God and he will help you.
May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in
your faith, that by the power of the Holy Spirit, your whole life and outlook
may be radiant with hope.
~Romans 15:13 Phillips – The New Testament in Modern
English
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