Is the Silence Golden?

Someone said silence is golden when it is used as a powerful technique for communications. Experts agree that silence can speak louder than the spoken word. Silence is not an indication of an inactive brain or a lack of thinking. Difficult issues are often resolved during periods of silence even in the healthiest relationships.

There is both a positive and negative dimension to silence. It can be destructive if someone refuses to address important issues. Silence can become destructive when it is used as a tool for punishment. It’s also destructive when used to secure emotional distance or to keep someone off balance. Silence that causes pain and suffering is destructive.

Silence can be helpful for soothing tension and regaining a healthy mental and emotional perspective. When silence is used for listening, it’s possible to hear more than mere words. This builds a bridge to understanding the other person. Jesus often retreated to a lonely, quiet place to connect with his Heavenly Father. Perhaps you should explore that option. 

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Be still and know that I am God... Be still and know that I am… Be still and know… Be still… Be…

~Psalm 46:10 New International Version

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