Stories abound of couples who were so infatuated with each other they believed their soulmate had been found. If infatuation were an exact test for compatibility, then couples would not divorce. Infatuation cannot compensate for differences in values, ethnicity, religious beliefs, and maturity.
Perfect compatibility is not a requirement for a solid relationship. However, communication that leads to understanding and acceptance strengthens the existing unity. Without communication, incompatibility builds emotional walls that weaken even a strong bond.
The greater the areas of compatibility, the less incompatibility will thrive because trust and respect continue to tighten the ties that bind. Amos 3:3 asks, “Do two walk together unless they agree to do so?”
Continuing to search for areas of agreement will build and strengthen communication and compatibility.
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