Potentiality for compatibility is often recognized spontaneously. As a relationship blossoms and grows, compatibility and maturity become evident. Unfortunately, differences in beliefs and values may be hidden due to fear of rejection. This form of dishonesty blocks compatibility.
Maturity isn’t based on perfection but provides confidence for entrusting oneself into the care of an intimate other. As a couple moves toward stability, evidence for compatibility will be discovered, which builds a case for or against a closer relationship.
Maturity and compatibility include how much capacity there is for relaxation, humor, and fun. God meant for us to find humor in everyday life in order to experience joy, which enhances compatibility.
Do you realize that joy is a gift from God? Love, joy, and peace are wonderful gifts of the Holy Spirit.
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He who dwells in the
shelter of the Most High, who abides in the shadow of the Almighty, will say to
the Lord, “My refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.”
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