Mean What You Say and Say What You Mean

To see clearly and understand what’s been communicated builds a bridge to sound decisions and possibilities. The phrase, “I see what you mean,” indicates both comprehension and understanding. To see ourselves as we want others to see us should motivate us consistently to mean what we say and say what we mean.

God commissions us to be messengers of encouragement and information to others so they clearly understand how to be the people he expects them to be. Realistic expectations that are achievable challenge us to press onward and upward so as not to disappoint ourselves and others. God enables us to achieve what he calls us to do.

As we accept that God knows us completely, including our future, he gives us strength and courage to fulfill his continuous purpose for us. This should be encouragement to press on and face any obstacle. Let your expectations be commensurate with your love and trust for God, who will never fail to fulfill his purpose for you.   

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Our purpose is to do what is right, not only in the sight of the Lord, but also in the sight of others.

~2 Corinthians 8:21 Good News Bible

 

The wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure and full of quiet  gentleness. Then it is peace-loving and courteous. It allows discussion and is willing to yield to others. It is wholehearted and straightforward and sincere.

~James 3:17 The Living Bible

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Resolve Conflict with Communications

Definitions of communications abound from simply talking together to describing a complex system of digital sounds and symbols. Failure to communicate is often based on assuming the sender and receiver are ready for information to be transmitted either verbally or nonverbally, but this is frequently a false assumption. 

 A primary cause for attempts to communicate digressing into criticism and blame is the presence of anger, jealousy, and fear. These are responsible for breakdowns in communication, for it's almost impossible to receive blame or criticism without reacting in a way that causes conflict to escalate. There is a better way.

God's word gives us a method for talking together that’s anchored in respect and care for the other person. "Make plans to do what is right not only in the eyes of the Lord, but also in the eyes of men." This is possible by seeking wisdom and understanding that can be provided only by the Lord God. Make this your primary desire and objective.  

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Patient persistence pierces through indifference; gentle speech breaks down rigid defenses.

~Proverbs 25:15 The Message

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