Definitions of communications abound from simply talking together to describing a complex system of digital sounds and symbols. Failure to communicate is often based on assuming the sender and receiver are ready for information to be transmitted either verbally or nonverbally, but this is frequently a false assumption.
A primary cause for attempts to communicate digressing into criticism and blame is the presence of anger, jealousy, and fear. These are responsible for breakdowns in communication, for it's almost impossible to receive blame or criticism without reacting in a way that causes conflict to escalate. There is a better way.
God's word gives us a method for talking together that’s anchored in respect and care for the other person. "Make plans to do what is right not only in the eyes of the Lord, but also in the eyes of men." This is possible by seeking wisdom and understanding that can be provided only by the Lord God. Make this your primary desire and objective.
Patient persistence pierces through indifference; gentle
speech breaks down rigid defenses.
~Proverbs 25:15 The Message
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