Communication builds a bridge to happiness because it paves the way for resolving conflicts that every relationship experiences. Successful marriages are not conflict-free, but these couples have devised a system of communication that considers differences in personality, intelligence, and feelings without alienating one another. They have learned to honor their differences by acknowledging them as assets rather than liabilities.
Providing unsolicited solutions for another person's problems, however, is usually a dead-end for communications. This approach provides an air of superiority that threatens the other’s self-esteem. At this level of communicating, the other person's ideas are not considered important.
Jesus was consistently aware of each individual’s needs. He often put aside his role as teacher, preacher, and healer to listen and address the concerns and needs of the people. Communication can build a bridge to enjoyment and fun as well as managing differences and conflicts. Effective communication transforms conflict into understanding and trust. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do good.”
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Words satisfy the mind as much as fruit does the
stomach; good talk is as gratifying as a good harvest.
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