The Communication Bond

From infancy onward communication becomes the link for bonding with one’s parents, siblings, and significant others. The touch of a mother's hand, her soothing voice, and the way she responds when her baby cries communicate that love and acceptance are a priority. Communication is a major bonding force at every stage of life.

The toddler stage has been dubbed the "terrible two’s" because of defiance associated with the child’s first critical step toward independence. This struggle towards independence is aided by the ability to communicate with words like "no" and "mine". The toddler operates under the assumptions that "All I have is mine,” and “All you have is mine."

This mindset may continue into adulthood, which blocks the creative means for bonding. God communicated that, instead, we are to love others as we love ourselves, which is made possible by loving God with our total being.  Loving God this way creates a spirit of generosity that enhances bonding and communications.  

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Jesus said, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence.’ This is the most important, the first on any list. But there is a second to set alongside it: ‘Love others as well as you love yourself.’ These two commands are pegs; everything in God’s Law and the Prophets hangs from them.”

~Matthew 22:37-40 The Message

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