Words Matter – Use Your Filter!

An essential principal for effective communication is recognizing the impact the choice of words has on others. Words spoken impulsively and inappropriately can damage another person's self-esteem and self-worth. Those speaking so thoughtlessly may never consider the emotional  impact of their words.

God designed each individual with the capacity to filter words before they are spoken. The key is being sensitive to warning signals that alert us to the danger and inappropriateness of our language. It is better to choose what you say rather than say whatever you impulsively think, especially when emotionally upset.

Our choice of words either builds a bridge to understanding and feelings of security or creates disharmony and alienation. If you spoke to others as if you were addressing the Lord Jesus Christ, would it make a difference in your choice of words and the tone of your voice? Is it possible for others to see Jesus reflected in how and what you communicate?  

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Words of wisdom come from the wise, but fools speak foolishness.

~Proverbs 15:2 Contemporary English Version

 Patience and gentle talk can convince a ruler and overcome any problem.

~Proverbs 25:15 Contemporary English Version

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Resolve Conflict with Communications

Definitions of communications abound from simply talking together to describing a complex system of digital sounds and symbols. Failure to communicate is often based on assuming the sender and receiver are ready for information to be transmitted either verbally or nonverbally, but this is frequently a false assumption. 

 A primary cause for attempts to communicate digressing into criticism and blame is the presence of anger, jealousy, and fear. These are responsible for breakdowns in communication, for it's almost impossible to receive blame or criticism without reacting in a way that causes conflict to escalate. There is a better way.

God's word gives us a method for talking together that’s anchored in respect and care for the other person. "Make plans to do what is right not only in the eyes of the Lord, but also in the eyes of men." This is possible by seeking wisdom and understanding that can be provided only by the Lord God. Make this your primary desire and objective.  

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Patient persistence pierces through indifference; gentle speech breaks down rigid defenses.

~Proverbs 25:15 The Message

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