Is It Possible to Remain Calm in the Presence of Strife?

Have you ever planned a vacation that included a long road trip to see parts of the country and that promised enjoyment and excitement? Our lives and relationships often are compared to a journey that’s comprised of  predictability, some surprises, unexpected struggles, and moments of love and fulfillment.

Struggles and strife can catch us unprepared and surprised. Over- reacting emotionally often is caused by being caught off-guard and sensing a situation as threatening. Remaining self-composed can be difficult in the presence of angry or loud, defensive language.

Is it possible to remain calm when you are struggling emotionally? Yes! 

Look beyond the moment to understand what’s more important than reacting. Claim this promise from 2 Timothy 1:7: “God has not given you a spirit of fear but a spirit of love, power, and self-control.” What better promise can help you remain calm? May you be blessed with the peace of Christ in your heart and mind this Easter season.      

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Our God says, “Calm down, and learn [Be still, and know] that I am God!” 

~Psalm 46:10 Contemporary English Version [New International Version]

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An Amazing Expression of Love: Forgiveness

Joseph forgave his brothers for the suffering he endured because he chose to be free of anger and resentment. Joseph could have punished them severely but instead chose to give them freedom by forgiving them. In doing so, he gave himself the gift of happiness as well as the gift of freedom from anger and bitterness. 

Forgiveness is an expression of love that puts another person's feelings, needs and happiness on par with oneself. The objective is an enhanced quality of life that forgiveness brings to oneself and others. Love may be the most important component of forgiveness because it requires a demonstration of mercy and compassion.

To accomplish this task, remember: forgiveness is never given nor received without sacrificing something of yourself. The Lord God paid a profound price to forgive and cleanse us from sin by sending Jesus to die on the cross for our redemption. As we have received God’s forgiveness, let us freely extend forgiveness to others.  

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Joseph replied, “Don’t be afraid of me. Am I God, that I can punish you? You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. No, don’t be afraid. I will continue to take care of you and your children.” So he reassured them by speaking kindly to them.

~Genesis 50:19-21 New Living Translation

Yet the proof of God’s amazing love is this: it was while we were sinners that Christ died for us.

~Romans 5:8 Phillips – The New Testament in Modern English

Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”

~Luke 23:34 New International Version