Some
people are sadly lacking in the desire to deal constructively with reality even
when confronted with undeniable facts. Dealing constructively with reality often
requires letting go of what is unattainable. This also applies to being
rejected. Feelings of rejection can be difficult to manage in healthy ways.
Jesus wept over the people of Jerusalem
when they refused to accept him. The people he would die for saw him as undesirable.
Grieving is a choice and is God's way for managing rejection. Where does the ability
and desire to grieve come from when we are forced to deal constructively with the
harsh realities of life?
Using
Jesus as our model for managing the reality of rejection, we find that he never
lost sight of who he was or of his purpose. He was willing to see other choices
for his immediate situation. It's important to have long-term goals for making healthy
choices when change is required. Ask Christ Jesus to give you courage to press
on toward what you know to be God's purpose for you.
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