Power
struggles are common in relationships. Married couples sometimes fight over
what seem to be insignificant matters. However on closer examination, the issue
is, who rules what and how much? Grappling for position, salary, and privileges
at work also is common practice. The end result can be serious conflict that
damages relationships.
The father of a teenage daughter
related how he became embroiled in a huge power struggle with her. Looking
back, the issue that sparked the fire was minor. Some said it was basic adolescent
rebellion striving for independence while others contended the father was too controlling
and failed to trust her with what she was striving to obtain.
Stepping
back from a power struggle permits you to consider Ephesians 3:17. "I
pray that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have power to grasp how
wide, long and deep is the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge." Trusting
in the power of Christ's love gives you the ability to communicate with reason.
This is a choice you can make.
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