The facts
of reality are not always easy to accept, but most individuals eventually face what cannot be denied. The
issue is learning how to deal constructively with reality, which is a basic
principle for making choices for effective change in difficult situations. This
applies to power struggles where striving
for dominance and control jeopardize a relationship.
Someone told me he finally realized
the futility of fighting with his wife. A deeper hurt was the lack of closeness
and loneliness they both experienced. Quarreling proved to be a "no win"
situation as the main issue failed to be addressed. Getting bogged down in
power struggles overlooks areas where there is compatibility for potential
happiness.
Dealing
constructively with reality requires making some tough choices. What appears impossible
can become workable by accepting the positive attributes about a person or relationship.
Being flexible enough for God to create an attitude of hope in you is a choice you
can make. Hope that rests in Christ Jesus builds confidence for facing tough realities.
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