CONCEALMENT is akin to hoarding, and then refusing to
reveal what you’ve got for fear the consequences could be painful. Cover-ups in
relationships are dangerous because they’re a deterrent for building intimacy. By
its very nature, concealment reeks with distrust in addition to controlling
what others may have the right to know.
Concealment
produces guilt that Jesus said would eventually be shouted from the house top. Primo
Levi noted in his book, The Drowned and
the Saved, “Uncomfortable truth travels with difficulties.” Withholding
what should be spoken in truth builds a bridge to experiencing something like
drowning in guilt and shame.
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