CONTROL is an issue every individual and family is
forced to address. Control is sought directly, indirectly, passively or aggressively,
and could involve a combination of any of these. This very day gang wars are fought
to control a turf in our cities. Most control disputes are settled either by
surrender and defeat or through negotiations.
The
struggle for control in families can literally be a bridge to destruction. Control
by harsh, demanding threats or physical abuse is usually a shallow victory that
only reflects momentary compliance. Respect, honor and legitimate submissiveness
are lost because the controller is no longer seen as trustworthy.
Control
and healthy boundaries are a necessity in every social situation because of the
need to establish order. However, honor and respect for others is the bridge
for diminishing unnecessary control. God’s Word tells you to love one another, to
be kind and gentle for this builds a bridge to healthy order in any relationship.
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