The Genesis account of Jacob and Esau is a fascinating
story. Their father Isaac pleaded with God to give his wife Rebekah a child,
but she gave birth to twins. Before birth, they constantly struggled causing Rebekah
cry out to God, “Why do you allow this constant torment? I can’t rest nor have
peace. All this kicking, grabbing, pushing is beyond what I can tolerate.”
God’s
assurance in Genesis 25:23 helped her endure until they were born: “The sons in
your womb will become competitors, one being stronger than the other. The older
shall be a servant of the younger.” This
meant the younger son would be more creative, quick-witted, but not physically
stronger.
Parents
want their children to be successful, balanced in their abilities to achieve. Sibling
rivalry happens, so parents either escalate strife or defuse it by refusing to
play favorites. Focus on God’s love, design and purpose for each child. Love
each one equally to build a bridge to unity and peace.
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