It's imperative to acknowledge that anger can
be provoked in everyone, but it likewise can become the means for creating
healthy, strong relationships rather than a force for destroying what’s
potentially good and loving. While expressed anger can be frightening, it’s
possible for it to be used constructively for resolving conflict and developing
trust.
In
a counseling session, a woman in a fit of anger took off her shoe and began
thrashing her husband. This happened in an instant, to everyone’s dismay.
After the adrenaline rush dissipated, she explained that her husband said
something that infuriated her, so anger and rage took control.
Proverbs 15:18 declares, “A hot-tempered person
stirs up dissension and starts fights.” Explosions of anger and rage seldom
resolve issues or bring couples closer together. It’s imperative to accept responsibility for your anger. Anger can be the means for expressing healthy
feelings and thoughts while building a bridge to trust and respect.
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