Anger and fear are close companions. Both deliver the same message, “Fight or take flight.” When the message is “fight”,
it may mean stand your ground, take offensive action either physically or
verbally. An immediate adrenaline rush gives strength, courage and the ability
to think faster for defending and protecting oneself.
Anger’s
message may be to “take flight” to avoid conflict and harm. Jacob ran away
from his brother to escape Esau’s intention to kill him. Jacob was possibly
resentful and angry with his mother for talking him into deceiving his
brother. He possibly felt resentful of Esau for being his father's favorite.
While
anger and fear are inescapable, both can be managed in healthy, productive ways
to prevent harm and hurt from developing in relationships. The first step is to
admit these feelings exist. Then ask God for wisdom so a safe and healthy resolution
can be forthcoming. Ask God for courage to follow his will and plan.
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