Setting
boundaries and being able to sustain those boundaries is in fact one of the
graduated steps in making forgiveness a success. How earnestly have you prayed to
ask God to help you forgive someone who cruelly hurt you? Then you actually felt relief and peace from
the bitterness that engulfed your life? Later, you’re back in the trench with the same
hurt and bitterness, as if forgiveness never happened.
Remember
the story Jesus told about a demon that came out of a man only to return later
with seven of his fellow demons to torment him worse than before? What went wrong that permitted the demons to
return? He failed to surround himself with godly boundaries that protected him
from demons. Setting boundaries is a
continuous process as is forgiving someone who has hurt you.
Setting
needed boundaries that prevent you from lingering in the trench with hate and
bitterness is essential. Forgiveness,
though not easily obtained, builds a bridge to inner peace with others and God
the Father. Forgive and you will be
forgiven.
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Let there be no
more bitter resentment or anger, no more shouting or slander, and let there be
no bad feeling of any kind among you. Be kind to each other, be compassionate.
Be as ready to forgive others as God for Christ’s sake has forgiven you.
~Ephesians 4:31-32 Phillips
– New Testament in Modern English
In every battle
you will need faith as your shield to stop the fiery arrows aimed at you by Satan.
~Ephesians 6:16 The
Living Bible
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