Alfred Lord Byron, the English poet, wrote that revenge is sweet. This attitude plays well in literature, but in relationships it creates disastrous
consequences for all involved. The need for revenge negatively affects the
spirit and soul of the one harboring such feelings. Revenge can be acted out in
hateful, destructive behavior or by passive aggressive isolation.
The drive
for retribution originates from hurt and anger and is often directed toward
someone you trusted and loved. It can be directed toward a stranger who brought
pain and suffering into your life. Getting past this destructive mindset
requires honest self-evaluations. Ask yourself, “What have I got to lose by
letting go of this need for revenge? What do I gain by giving it up?”
The answer is freedom to live in peace. God's Word asserts,
“Revenge is mine. I will repay says the Lord.” Jesus reminds you to seek the
truth and it will set you free. God invites you to forgive as he in Christ
Jesus has forgiven you, and that is indeed a godly choice.
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