The Confidence to Trust - Part 3

Avoiding anything uncomfortable is a natural human defense. So making choices to change doesn’t usually happen without a meaningful struggle. Fear of the unknown is one of the strongest motivators for neglect. We choose to avoid what would disrupt the life we so carefully and painstakingly arranged. So avoidance is active neglect.

Avoidance behavior protects a person from feeling anxious and worried when there is potential conflict. Suppose you’re losing touch with a friend because of a disagreement, so you neglect seeing that person to avoid conflict. The danger of neglect and avoidance is a potential, looming crisis and possible irreversible damage.

The hope for neglect and avoidance is to trust in the Lord Jesus Christ, who promises to help. Listen to Matthew 7:7, “Ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” While it's difficult to do, trust your spouse or friend with what’s troubling you. God will provide an opportunity if you trust him.