God
created order for all of life to follow. We as humans are first infants, then
children, teenagers, and finally go on to adulthood. Adolescence is devoted to
establishing an identity that expands for the rest of life. The more correct
and true our identity foundation, the better our chances for building long-lasting,
intimate relationships.
The more uncertainty about our
identity, the more difficult it is to establish solid attachments. Where shallow
attachment exists, there is a lack of closeness with another person. Healthy
intimacy portrays a mutual balance in giving to and receiving from an intimate
other. God's desire for us is to be dependent on him, not only for our
identity, but for our belonging and
purpose.
Confessing
to God who and what you are is scary, but necessary for changing and strengthening
your sense of identity. Confession implies openness and vulnerability. Proverbs
28:13 offers these encouraging words, "Whoever confesses finds
mercy." This is my hope and prayer for you.
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